posted 07/29/09 12:08 AM | updated 07/30/09 02:11 AM

Longtime gay activist, a top state education official, was near victim of anti-gay beating

Robert Harkins at a recent education rally on the Capitol steps in Olympia. (Courtesy of Robert Harkins)

Robert Harkins, who was the face of the gay rights organization Hands Off Washington in the 1990s, knows that gay-bashing occurs.

He wasn’t expecting it Friday night, though. Not as he walked with a friend Friday night. Not on Capitol Hill – the traditional center of gay life in Seattle.

But at about 11 p.m., Harkins, who is now the state’s deputy superintendent in the Office of the Superintendent of Public Instruction, said he watched his friend get shoved to the ground on Pike Street and three men kick his friend in the face while yelling anti-gay and anti-Hispanic slurs.

The friend has two black eyes, Harkins said Tuesday.

The man, who didn’t want his name used, was still near tears when talking about it Monday.

Harkins’ friend said he’s not surprised to hear anti-gay remarks walking in Belltown. But on Capitol Hill, he said, “you’re supposed to feel safe.”

Harkins, who is in his mid-50s, said he and the friend, who is in his mid-20s, were walking on Pike Street, near Broadway, at about 11 p.m. when they passed a few people smoking outside a bar.

A woman in the group made a remark about a “pretty boy walking with his daddy,” Harkins said.

The friend stopped and said he wasn’t going to take that. He demanded an apology. A man who was with the woman stepped in.

Harkins’ friend still demanded an apology.

The other man shoved him to the ground, Harkins said.

Immediately, three other men began kicking Harkins’ friend.

The friend said he didn’t know if the same man who had shoved him kicked him. He just remembers going down and then feeling the kicks.

Harkins said others passed by on a busy Friday night. Only one woman stopped to help. She and Harkins stepped in stopped the attack.

He and the friend are just friends, Harkins said. Indeed, Harkins said Friday was the anniversary of the death of his fiancé.

“This weekend was supposed to be about my friends gathering around me,” he said – not of watching brutality.

Two years ago, I wrote a story for the Seattle Post-Intelligencer about a spate of anti-gay attacks on Capitol Hill. Gays said the neighborhood was changing. It wasn’t just the move of the annual gay pride parade to downtown. More people from out of the area were coming to the neighborhood – perhaps not knowing of Capitol Hill’s significance in the gay community.

Harkins was sore Monday from pulling a muscle in his chest from breaking up the fight. He emphasized he wasn’t the one physically attacked.

But emotionally, he was still shaken, Harkins said.

That the attack happened on Capitol Hill was upsetting, Harkins said.

Harkins is a veteran of the gay rights movement, having served as the spokesman for Hands Off Washington, which fought statewide initiatives in the mid-1990s that would have prohibited state and local governments from protecting gays and lesbians under anti-discrimination laws, prohibited schools from portraying homosexuality in a positive light and banned gays from adopting children or getting custody of children in a divorce.

The three men, he said, “were just looking for a reason to whale on someone who was gay.

“You’d like to think we’ve come farther than this,” Harkins said.

Murakami was formerly the neighborhoods and City Hall reporter for the Seattle Post-Intelligencer

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Lynchings after WW2
The period in our history with the highest rate of "reported" lynchings was ironically enough after WW2 and not during or after reconstruction. When extremist groups are the most marginalized and threatened is when they turn to violence. I am sorry this happened and also ashamed that as a Christian hetero married man there are those who are so fearful that they turn to hatred. This is a time for all of us to actively rather than passively do the right thing and put this violence to an end. No one should walk the streets in fear.
Comment by CentralAreaGuy
6 months ago
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It's not uncommon.
I was standing out back of Neighbors talking to 6 or so gay friends. The subject of gay bashing came up. I was shocked when one by one they all said "I've been bashed" and proceeded to describe their situation. Not always in Capitol Hill, though.

It's chilling.
Comment by RCS
6 months ago
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What's wrong with sticking your fingers in your ears and singing "la la la I can't hear you"?
First, I'm sorry to hear this happened (again). Violence is always, always wrong. As a straight former resident of Capitol Hill, I have a lot of love for that neighborhood, but the gay community has to wake up and realize that it's not JUST their neighborhood. But really? Why can't people be realistic and not invite trouble? The attackers were smoking outside of a bar, which means they were obviously drinking as well, which means they might just be volatile and unpredictable. The woman makes a remark and Harkins' friend gets confrontationally defensive demanding an apology? I'm sorry but he opened the door to that violence and could have avoided it. We don't live in magical world where everybody behaves the way we think they should. People are always going to say and do things we don't like or agree with. To think you're going to change a neighborhood or the world by getting confrontational is "magical thinking." Reality: We live in a jungle, which means you should always be aware that animals smoking outside of a bar might become aggressive if you get confrontationally defensive in their face. Where was this guy's sense of self-preservation?

When I'm out walking around at night and receive an unwanted comment, I just ignore them, metaphorically stick my fingers in my ears and sing "la la la I can't hear you" and keep walking.
Comment by AnnaMontana
6 months ago
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RE AnnaMontana remark
That is a ridiculous statement. To suggest that someone instigated an attack because he got into a verbal altercation with someone; it’s the same as suggesting that a woman should expect to be sexually assaulted because she was wearing provocative attire. It is never acceptable to batter another individual for any reason. Gays are fed up with verbal attacks and will not remain silent to hateful, derogative slurs.
Comment by Paul Andres
6 months ago
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RE AnnaMontana
I suppose then as a black man I should avoid Montana, because my life experience tells me that small towns with mostly white people are where people like me "should expect" to face violence from uncultured racists and rednecks...

Nonsense!

I approach every person as a individual and give them the half benefit of the doubt until they prove otherwise.

No one should have to fear walking down the street for this reason! No one! Had it been a heterosexual woman who was assaulted, I'm sure your reaction would have been much different.
Comment by Grey
6 months ago
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Bashing
I'm 6'0 white, brown hair, male, I've been "Bashed" I'm tired of hearing how everyone is SOOOOOO special!! YAWN.
Comment by WhiteDUde
6 months ago
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Gay hatred caused this?
So if a gay person is beaten up, this automatically makes it a "hate crime"? Violence is bad but violence happens. It seems to me there is very little evidence here that the violence was related to hating gay people. First of all, as a gay person, I don't find the phrase "look at the pretty boy and his daddy" offensive to gay people. I would think the same thing if a 20-something was walking with a 50-something. So maybe this is not a gay bashing, but rather a large-age-gap-couple bashing? People will say things to you that you don't like. You can act like an adult and walk away, or you can start a fight. Seems like the latter approach was taken here. My lover 10 years ago was beaten up because he was gay and was permanently injured. It enrages me that this story is being promoted as anything remotely similar.
Comment by Don
6 months ago
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Hire a proofreader
Please.
Comment by Dick Ellingson
6 months ago
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